The Toi Et Moi Signet Ring
Fine Jewelry | Made to order
Two diamonds, two cuts, set side by side — a pear beside an emerald cut, each in its own bezel. The toi et moi is an old idea: two stones for two people, or two halves of one.
The Piece
The two stones sit together at the top of the band, angled toward each other, each held in a clean bezel. The pear's soft point meets the emerald cut's straight edge — one all curve, the other all line. The contrast is the design. The band stays plain so the pairing does the talking.
Details
| Product type | Diamond ring |
| Metal | 14k gold (yellow, white, or rose) |
| Gold weight | Approx. 3.30 g (14k) |
| Diamond origin | Lab-grown |
| Diamond color | E/F |
| Diamond clarity | VS |
| Diamond shapes | Emerald-cut and pear |
| Diamond quantity | 2 |
| Total diamond weight | 2.18 ct |
| Setting | Bezel-set, two-stone (toi et moi) |
Diamond Breakdown
| Type | Quantity | Weight | Detail |
| Emerald-cut | 1 | 1.44 ct | 7.62 × 5.36 mm |
| Pear | 1 | 0.74 ct | 7.36 × 5.09 mm |
The Diamonds
Two lab-grown diamonds sit together at the center of the ring: an emerald cut of 1.44 carats (7.62 × 5.36 mm) and a pear of 0.74 carats (7.36 × 5.09 mm), 2.18 carats in total. Both are selected in E/F color and VS clarity — the emerald cut's open table showing that clarity plainly.
Read more: Lab-Grown and Mined Diamonds: The Material Difference
The Gold
The ring is made in 14k gold, with an approximate gold weight of 3.30 grams. Each stone sits in its own bezel, the two settings meeting at the top of a plain, tapering band.
Read more: Gold, Explained: Why Alva Works in 14k
Dimensions & Fit
Overall width across the stones: approx. 9.20 mm · Bezel height: approx. 4.80 mm · Band width at the base: approx. 1.90 mm · Profile: approx. 2.00 mm. Each ring is made to order in your size.
Read more: Ring Sizing: The Millimetre Table
Why This Piece
A single stone says one thing. Two stones, in two different cuts, say something less obvious — which is why the toi et moi has outlasted most ring designs.
Designed to Be Lived In
Every Alva piece is made by hand in 14k gold and lab-grown diamonds, and made to order after you place it. It is not set aside for occasions — it is measured by the years of wear ahead of it, not the moment it was bought.
Care
What's good is worn, not kept safe. A softened edge or a faint scratch is not damage; it is evidence of a life lived in it.
| Wearing it | Put it on last, after lotion and perfume have dried. Take it off first, before swimming, heavy exercise, or exposure to household chemicals. |
| Cleaning it | Clean with warm water, mild dish soap, and a soft-bristled brush. Rinse and dry with a soft cloth. Skip ultrasonic cleaners on delicate settings and abrasive polishes altogether. |
| Storing it | Store separately so metal does not scratch metal. |
| Professional care | Have the setting checked once a year. White gold may need replating every few years; yellow and rose gold simply deepen in color instead. |
For anything beyond routine care, Alva is reachable directly at customercare@alvafinejewelry.com
Cared for simply, a piece settles further into a life, and the mark it takes on becomes part of what it is worth.
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